FAMILY PROBLEMS!! I need to know what i should do?( i know this might be long but please help)?
February 22, 2012
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FAMILY PROBLEMS!! I need to know what i should do?( i know this might be long but please help)?
Ok my 2 sister in laws called me asking if they can barrow some money to get their kids(5 all together) somethin to eat cause a guy that has been living there with their mom and dad is eating all the food up and he’s not even family. he’s just a bom and a crack head. any ways they want me to either let them barrow some money or get them some food and i really dont have it to give it cause my hubby and i are taking care of our son. There are 6 adults living where they are and 3 of them have jobs and plus they get like 600 in foodstamp. When my husband is working 2 jobs and i am working to keep up with our bills and buying food. Now what i dont get is that they are letting a grown man that is not even family eat there food and live there and noone is making him leave. their mom and dad both have jobs and my 1 of my sister in laws husband works and my other one gets money from her husband. they have a 00 pool, the brand new touch screen phones that came out, 0 lab top. i know it’s nice to have all those things but should you put your bills and food and children first? Anyways they have the money to buy their cigs and beer and gas to run but yet they dont have the money for food and is calling and asking money from my husband and i when what little money we have we need. BUT i dont want to see the kids go without. Also they NEVER help my husband and i out. NEVER!! I dont want to be mean but should i just tell them no and how i feel about why i said no. i really dont know what to do. I dont want to give them cash cause i think they will go off and buy more cigs and beer and i know if i get them food that guy that is living there will eat it befor the kids will get to. WHAT TO DO?
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Answer by ILOVEJB
yes definetely its their dumbass fault that they are stupid enough not to put their kids in front of technology like a freaking laptop or cellphone. and i dont believe they actually have a bum in their house do they? i think theyre trying to scam ur money out of you, dont do it. they have to earn it themselves. those motherfucking dickhead bitches. fuck.
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Just ignore them, they are just junkies, you cant help them, stay away from them.
u need to tell them that ur hubby and u are trying to raise ur child by working 2 jobs and its not like u have money lying around and refusing to give them….. tell them calmly and patiently abt how they cant let a stranger come before their kids … they have to be able to support them first b4 taking care of this guy… and if u know the person responsible for letting this guy stay with them … try talking to him/her and how its affecting their kids and family or talk with the mom and dad if u r closer to them
My mum has a similar problem. Well my mum is a family of 6 and she’s the only one in her family that has a job because the rest of her siblings failed their school and some too lazy to finish their school. Now her siblings has their own families with kids but still no job even their husbands, they’re all poor back in Philippines. So my mum has to pay for their food, house, bills, children’s education and hospitalites even my grandpa but my grandma passed away long before. None of them ever help her. My mum has her own family financial issues to deal with too, still from to this date for over 20 years my mother has always shared her money to her father and siblings, leaving her tge least amount and hard wirk of nursing every day and night and barley get enough free time to stay home with her own family. My mother hates doing this, she would cry, reep, stress, dipress at times because she’s fed up living a life of work.
But in your problem, i think u should tell your sister in laws about your problem why u dont rlly want to give them the money, let them know frankly so they will hopefully understand the problem and the things themselves should work on. Maybe u could give them just a little amount of money sometime and then the next other time which adds up just to be generous. Just my opinion, hope it helps.
Tell your sisters in law that you don’t have any spare cash to give them as you are struggling too. Tell them to kick out the man who eats all their food, if that story is actually true.
Do not feel bad for their kids, i’m sure they can pawn their fancy goods to get the money for food. They are trying to use their kids to get money, don’t fall for it.
You won’t ever get the money back and it will cause bad feeling.
So be straight to the point to avoid any doubts and save more hassle and demands in future, good luck.